Psychologist Chen Changning/Adolescent Psychiatry Specialist
Lin Lu Ninghua Translation
Consequences and effects if young people do not receive proper treatment for mental illness when they need it:
In Asian cultures, many adolescents have ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) symptoms but cannot get help.Although some teenagers can persist in completing their studies by their own will and perseverance.However, most teenagers are ignored, unable to realize their potentials, and unable to fulfill their dreams. Therefore, it is necessary to find out their symptoms as soon as possible, prescribe the right medicine, and receive treatment.
In Asia, adolescents with mental illness are less aware, especially ADHD, so these teenagers have to hide their inner struggles and pains, and dare not open themselves to outsiders, because they are afraid of attracting criticism and misunderstanding, so they have to be silent, so they are in Asian culture. The challenge for these young people in China is even greater.In addition, because of more difficulties in the exam, academic performance is not satisfactory. If you suffer from depression or ADHD, you will often feel a burden on your studies.
These children also have troubles and resistance in social and interpersonal relations.I remember that I was talking to a mother who had ADHD himself, and his child's husband also had ADHD.She told me that once he asked his husband to go to the market to buy the seven items on the list. His husband went to the market according to his instructions and bought seven items, but these seven items were not on his list at all. .And people with ADHD lack concentration, they are more impulsive and prone to making mistakes.Therefore, there is an additional layer of pressure in the marriage relationship.In addition, there will be a gap in their intelligence and academic performance. We do not understand why they cannot get the expected good results. This is most likely due to mental illness such as depression or ADHD.Because of these challenges, these young people naturally become depressed, low self-image, lack of self-confidence, inability to make progress, easy to give up, feel ashamed, and lose face.We all know that face is very important in Chinese culture. As I mentioned earlier, these challenges hinder them and limit their chances of success because they cannot complete their studies properly.
Final summary: How do we detect that young people have mental illness problems
1. Pay attention to whether their symptoms continue to be depressed or even sad for more than two weeks.
2. Like to be alone, always hide in their own room and continue to refuse to participate in the normal activities of adolescents.
3. Self-harm or behavior that hurts others.Suicidal.When you talk about death and suicide, you will be emotionally agitated, and you will get angry beyond normal, and you will not be able to control yourself.
4. Constantly rebellious, arguing, and aggressive behavior.Changes in eating habits, sudden gains or cramps
5. Sleep disorders, nightmares.In fact, we have three to four sleep cycles every night, and we often wake up from light sleep.The problem is that I wake up in the middle of the night and cannot fall asleep again, which becomes a problem.Nightmares are often associated with sequelae of trauma.
6. The body produces inexplicable pain or physical symptoms, such as headaches and stomachaches, which may be caused by depression or other mental illnesses.
7. Focus on the problem, sudden changes in academic performance.Although I worked hard, my performance still declined.In fact, school performance is a good indicator of a child's mental illness.
8. Another indicator is to avoid school or refuse to attend classes.
When you feel that your child has a problem, or the situation is special, it is best to consult a counselor.If the counselor feels that there may be psychiatric symptoms, he should consult a psychiatrist for diagnosis.Next, I will share with you the process of diagnosing patients:
1. I would recommend a full-body examination
2. I will review the medical records
3. I will review for physical or emotional trauma
4. I will review various symptoms, such as depression, whether there are auditory hallucinations, hallucinations, and detachment from reality.I will learn from my parents their concerns
5. Understand the growth process of this teenager and understand his problematic age group
6. Understand the past and present academic performance of young people
7. Interview with parents or teachers to understand their observations
8. Interview young people and observe them
9. Let parents complete professional questionnaires for their children.This will also help parents understand these symptoms.Many of these questionnaires can be downloaded online.
When facing a child’s mental and psychological problems, what should be done and what should be avoided.
1. Don't ignore these symptoms
2. Don't be afraid of your children, they need you to be their parent
3. Looking for help
4. Let an expert make a diagnosis, don't self-diagnose
5. Don’t expect immediate results and results, it takes time, like losing weight, it takes a long time
6. Need to wait patiently for the doctor's appointment time
7. The diagnosis process will not start immediately
8. Don't wait for a serious crisis to start looking for help
9. Don't wait until it's too late. For example, children with ADHD will be a little late in middle school and university.
10 Don't be afraid to take medicine
11. Don't stop the treatment plan immediately after seeing a little effect
1. The most effective treatment plan may include different factors: family, individual and group treatment led by a psychotherapist or psychologist, and medication under the guidance of a psychiatrist or pediatrician.This is a bit like cancer treatment. We may need chemotherapy to stop the tumor from spreading, surgery to remove the tumor, and different treatment options such as electrotherapy to completely remove all cancer cells.Therefore, in the field of psychiatry, we have to use a variety of treatment methods to cure this condition.
Finally, when in doubt, ask for help
1. It's better to be safe than regret
2. Seek professional help and evaluation
3. Many times it may be a communication problem
4. Encourage children to discuss with you and express their hearts
5. Spend more time with your children
As my father Mr. Tan Boon Chiang said, our challenges and difficulties make us stronger. This is the actual life on the ground.We are all sinful people, but we have a heavenly Father who loves us and takes care of us. He wants us to find his face, and he will definitely help us.As in Romans 8:28, "Everything works for the benefit of those who love God." This is what my father told me. He is a loving father. Although he is not perfect, he is a very good father. He often tells me, "DAN, our difficulties make us stronger." I absolutely believe that this is true. In the cracks of life, we can find God who knows us, and you will see new life in it. Start.Finally, I would like to summarize this lecture with 16 Thessalonians 18 chapters XNUMX-XNUMX in the Bible:
"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, thank you in everything, because this is God's will for us in Christ Jesus."
Lin Lu Ninghua Translation
Consequences and effects if young people do not receive proper treatment for mental illness when they need it:
In Asian cultures, many adolescents have ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) symptoms but cannot get help.Although some teenagers can persist in completing their studies by their own will and perseverance.However, most teenagers are ignored, unable to realize their potentials, and unable to fulfill their dreams. Therefore, it is necessary to find out their symptoms as soon as possible, prescribe the right medicine, and receive treatment.
In Asia, adolescents with mental illness are less aware, especially ADHD, so these teenagers have to hide their inner struggles and pains, and dare not open themselves to outsiders, because they are afraid of attracting criticism and misunderstanding, so they have to be silent, so they are in Asian culture. The challenge for these young people in China is even greater.In addition, because of more difficulties in the exam, academic performance is not satisfactory. If you suffer from depression or ADHD, you will often feel a burden on your studies.
These children also have troubles and resistance in social and interpersonal relations.I remember that I was talking to a mother who had ADHD himself, and his child's husband also had ADHD.She told me that once he asked his husband to go to the market to buy the seven items on the list. His husband went to the market according to his instructions and bought seven items, but these seven items were not on his list at all. .And people with ADHD lack concentration, they are more impulsive and prone to making mistakes.Therefore, there is an additional layer of pressure in the marriage relationship.In addition, there will be a gap in their intelligence and academic performance. We do not understand why they cannot get the expected good results. This is most likely due to mental illness such as depression or ADHD.Because of these challenges, these young people naturally become depressed, low self-image, lack of self-confidence, inability to make progress, easy to give up, feel ashamed, and lose face.We all know that face is very important in Chinese culture. As I mentioned earlier, these challenges hinder them and limit their chances of success because they cannot complete their studies properly.
Final summary: How do we detect that young people have mental illness problems
1. Pay attention to whether their symptoms continue to be depressed or even sad for more than two weeks.
2. Like to be alone, always hide in their own room and continue to refuse to participate in the normal activities of adolescents.
3. Self-harm or behavior that hurts others.Suicidal.When you talk about death and suicide, you will be emotionally agitated, and you will get angry beyond normal, and you will not be able to control yourself.
4. Constantly rebellious, arguing, and aggressive behavior.Changes in eating habits, sudden gains or cramps
5. Sleep disorders, nightmares.In fact, we have three to four sleep cycles every night, and we often wake up from light sleep.The problem is that I wake up in the middle of the night and cannot fall asleep again, which becomes a problem.Nightmares are often associated with sequelae of trauma.
6. The body produces inexplicable pain or physical symptoms, such as headaches and stomachaches, which may be caused by depression or other mental illnesses.
7. Focus on the problem, sudden changes in academic performance.Although I worked hard, my performance still declined.In fact, school performance is a good indicator of a child's mental illness.
8. Another indicator is to avoid school or refuse to attend classes.
When you feel that your child has a problem, or the situation is special, it is best to consult a counselor.If the counselor feels that there may be psychiatric symptoms, he should consult a psychiatrist for diagnosis.Next, I will share with you the process of diagnosing patients:
1. I would recommend a full-body examination
2. I will review the medical records
3. I will review for physical or emotional trauma
4. I will review various symptoms, such as depression, whether there are auditory hallucinations, hallucinations, and detachment from reality.I will learn from my parents their concerns
5. Understand the growth process of this teenager and understand his problematic age group
6. Understand the past and present academic performance of young people
7. Interview with parents or teachers to understand their observations
8. Interview young people and observe them
9. Let parents complete professional questionnaires for their children.This will also help parents understand these symptoms.Many of these questionnaires can be downloaded online.
When facing a child’s mental and psychological problems, what should be done and what should be avoided.
1. Don't ignore these symptoms
2. Don't be afraid of your children, they need you to be their parent
3. Looking for help
4. Let an expert make a diagnosis, don't self-diagnose
5. Don’t expect immediate results and results, it takes time, like losing weight, it takes a long time
6. Need to wait patiently for the doctor's appointment time
7. The diagnosis process will not start immediately
8. Don't wait for a serious crisis to start looking for help
9. Don't wait until it's too late. For example, children with ADHD will be a little late in middle school and university.
10 Don't be afraid to take medicine
11. Don't stop the treatment plan immediately after seeing a little effect
1. The most effective treatment plan may include different factors: family, individual and group treatment led by a psychotherapist or psychologist, and medication under the guidance of a psychiatrist or pediatrician.This is a bit like cancer treatment. We may need chemotherapy to stop the tumor from spreading, surgery to remove the tumor, and different treatment options such as electrotherapy to completely remove all cancer cells.Therefore, in the field of psychiatry, we have to use a variety of treatment methods to cure this condition.
Finally, when in doubt, ask for help
1. It's better to be safe than regret
2. Seek professional help and evaluation
3. Many times it may be a communication problem
4. Encourage children to discuss with you and express their hearts
5. Spend more time with your children
As my father Mr. Tan Boon Chiang said, our challenges and difficulties make us stronger. This is the actual life on the ground.We are all sinful people, but we have a heavenly Father who loves us and takes care of us. He wants us to find his face, and he will definitely help us.As in Romans 8:28, "Everything works for the benefit of those who love God." This is what my father told me. He is a loving father. Although he is not perfect, he is a very good father. He often tells me, "DAN, our difficulties make us stronger." I absolutely believe that this is true. In the cracks of life, we can find God who knows us, and you will see new life in it. Start.Finally, I would like to summarize this lecture with 16 Thessalonians 18 chapters XNUMX-XNUMX in the Bible:
"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, thank you in everything, because this is God's will for us in Christ Jesus."